Choosing outfits is simultaneously the most fun and the most stressful part of getting professional photos done. This guide will hopefully make it a little more fun and a little less stressful. This guide caters to people getting their photo taken with a partner.

First, the Basics

Comfort & Confidence

Comfort and confidence should be the most important things you think about when choosing an outfit. If you’re uncomfortable in your outfit, it will show in the photos. Choosing something you can move and play in is ideal. And choose something you feel amazing in! Keep this in mind while reading the next tips – I can give you suggestions, but when it comes down to it, wear what you love.

No Logos

It’s always better to stay away from big logos. Brands come and go and you want to look at these photos in ten years and have them feel timeless.

Layer Up

Layers are great! Layers add more depth to your outfit and also provide more opportunities for poses. It’s better to set a jacket to the side on location than be wishing you had thought to wear one.

More is More

Like the layering, it’s better to decide you don’t want to wear extra accessories halfway through your shoot than to get mad at yourself for not dressing yourself up a little more. Bring a hat, bring the fun earrings, we can always shoot with and without them so you can have your pick later.

Texture

Wearing outfits with fun texture or a lot of flow to them is always a good idea! It can add beautiful detail and depth to your photos.

Shoes

When it comes to shoes, I definitely recommend wearing something comfortable. Heels are great, but sometimes the perfect location can include a little off roading. If you’re set on heels, think about bringing a pair of sandals or sneakers to wear until you get to the exact spot you’ll be shooting. Whatever shoe you wear, I would try to make sure that they aren’t dirty on top. Shoes are also a fun way to add a pop of color to your fit.

Multiple Outfits

My standard couple package only includes one outfit, but I definitely recommend adding a second one to switch up the vibe and show off your personalities. Get the formal engagement photos for the wedding invites, but also take some more fun and playful pics in a casual fit.

Get Started Early

Try your best not to procrastinate when it comes to picking outfits. Finding clothes last minute always adds to the stress.

Dress for the Weather

I cannot stress this point enough. Dressing for the weather goes back to comfort – if you’re uncomfortable, it’ll show! If you’re really set on wearing a beautiful strapless dress, wait till the spring to shoot in it.

Have a Backup Plan

Try to have at least one other outfit set aside the day of just in case. If something doesn’t fit like you thought or you get something on it right before the shoot, you’ll be happy you have a backup.

Sweat the Small Stuff

Before you leave the house, do a once over, and maybe have someone else take a look too. Make sure your clothing is steamed so it’s not super wrinkling, check to make sure no bra straps or spanx are showing, take hair ties off your wrists. I’ll be checking for these things too, but it’s helpful if you give me a head start.

For the Boys

Keep It Simple

I think for guys it’s best to just keep it as simple as you can. Solid pants. Solid top. Maybe a jacket or a layering shirt. And let’s call it a day.

Hats

Now I would definitely say I prefer no hats for photoshoots, but I also know that some guys just feel most comfortable and like themselves in a hat, so do what feels best. If you are going to wear a hat, I recommend going out and finding a new one that is A) clean and B) plain. Try and find one that doesn’t have any bright colors, sports logos, or phrases on it.

Sunglasses

Please please please take the sunglasses off. Don’t put them on top of your head or on the brim of your hat. Don’t put them on your shirt or in your pocket. Leave them in the car. Your partner planned this whole thing to do something special, so let’s make it worth their time and see those pretty eyes!

Let’s Coordinate

Getting Started

I find it’s best to start by choosing a color palette. Between both of your outfits, I would try to stick within two to four, maybe five colors. It might be helpful to know what location you’re shooting at and see what color palette you think fits best. I feel like I usually want to pick my outfit first and then have my partner pick his outfit based on mine, but let’s be honest. You probably have more options than he does. I think you might have better luck picking out your man’s outfit first, and then choosing a color or two from his outfit to match.

Don’t Go Crazy

Do your best to stay away from super bold colors or patterns. Often clothing like this detracts from the main work of art – you! It can detract from beautiful, colorful locations when the outfit is what’s making a statement. This rule is really important for couples because if one person is dressed super bold and the other isn’t, an individual is pulling focus instead of the couple. And if you both go bold, it can be easy to clash.

Same Vibes

Definitely make sure you’re dressed for the same season and to the same level of formality. If she’s wearing a sundress and sandals, maybe don’t have your guy put on a suit. If she’s wearing a floor length formal dress, don’t wear jeans.

Coordinating vs Matching

All of the above tips mostly apply to coordinating your outfits, instead of matching. I think coordinating looks the best usually, but matching can also be a vibe. If you’re planning on matching, don’t try to copy and paste. Wear a slightly different style top or different color denim. Wear matching colors but maybe he wears white pants and a white shirt and you wear a white dress.

Final Thoughts

Most Importantly – BE YOU!

Like I said, wear what feels right. Show off your style and your personality. Don’t try to be something you’re not – create authentic memories by being you.

Need Help?

Really just not sure where to start? Think about making a Pinterest board for ideas or consider hiring a stylist. Or just ask your photographer! I am by no means a stylist, but I can absolutely get you started down the right path.